meet the granny!!

NAME: ESTER CHING
AGE: 70+
BIRTHDATE:OCTOBER SOMETHING...(hehehe)
CODENAME: ETING


meet ester ching..i dont really wanna write a blog about her...but i guess shes starting to be one big heck of a special cast of my life...

she by the way is Negr'as grandma..but her apo's prefer calling her mama instead..the first time i met her was last june of this yr. but ian already keeps telling me stories about her the first month that we were already together as a couple..and that left me pretty damn hanging just so heedful and wanting to really meet her in person. i was always excited to meet her and ian's relatives. but ian's really a jerk...he wouldnt want me to meet up with his lola if there is no chance for me to cut my dreadlocks..hadlok lng sya basin naa masulti na lain iya lola about nko...and that made me think..as of why would she ever think of something soo way nonsense?i mean hello..this is me..even before she would ever meet me, ani najud ako hair..we found ourselves arguing about the hair issue...but then i cant do anything about it.i have always been that dying and too scraapy to see her.so with my dismay, i just gotta do what ian wants me to do with my hair..CUT IT!!!i was like crying hard while i was removing my dreadz...it has been around with me for 6months..just to meet up with ian's family,i made the biggest sacrifice of my life..but before i even met her.there was this incident that rattled and twaddled me like some thief getting caught by the police...when i received a text message that she got really sick and she had some breakdowns..it badgered me and got me freakish to the bones..u know what i did??the next day i went to GaisanoMactan and bought fruits....ganahan jud ta ko mu visit sa ila house kay i wanna know how she was already doing and feeling after that attack..but ian wouldnt permit me coming over in his place kay dreadz pmn jud ko ato..so instead of me going there to bring her the fruits that i bought for her,ako gi sabotage ang sister ni ian.i texted her na mu agi ko sa ila skina sa haws and ill just drop the basket of fruits sa iya..mao na ako gibuhat pag afternoon. then pila ka minutes,kathleen(ian's sister)texted me..na lipay au ila lola..gipatawag pa gni si ian kay nasuko iya lola na how come wala pajud kuno ko gipa ila ila ni ian sa ilaha..thats why ian txted me.he never knew a single thing of what i did to his lola..he was touched.ana sya na grbaeh daw ko ka caring..alangan..i lost my lolas in an early age and never had the chance to really hang out with them.so 2 days after..ian invited me over at his place..the time that i was really waiting to unravel.

the first time i saw her,first impression nako kay strict sya..isug mn gud naong..but then i can see in her face na malipayon mn sd sya..she may be old but she acts like shes not even 70.healthy pmn sya..and that day,we never had the time to really chat.at least na introduce najud ko db>heheh..then nasundan na dayun.sige nko adto ila..everytime naay occasion sa ila,they never fail to invite me.to be honest,until now hadlok gihpon ko sa lola nila.i mean..amb ot..maulaw lng jud siguro ko...

pero ngadto na nko na realize unsa sya ka nice ug caring when i got pregnant..ian told his lola about my pregnancy pg 1 month sa ako tummy.of coarse,what wud u expect from her reaction?mashock na malain jud dba?but then nigawas jud iya pgka mama ug lola...naluoy sya ni ian..she tried to make ian understand unsa ka dako ug obligation and responsibility ang dal-un ni ian..to tell you,when she knew about me getting preggy,we never really talked about it..the time when i knew that she already knew about it,di na au ko mag adtuan ila ian.i got scared.but then ian told me not to feel that way kay wa mn nasuko iya lola nko.it was like weeks past when ian invited me to eat dinner sa ila place kay it was his cousin's birthday.and by the way,ang nkabalo jud diay na preggy ko kay iya cousin,sister and iya lola.the rest of his relatives were blind about it.

i went to his place dinner time..nice au ang family ni ian.very accommodating..ang wife sa iya uncle ako rman distant relative so ok ra pud..mao to sya first meeting namu sa iya lola after pagkabalo nya na buros ko..and to my surprise..si mama eting ba ni!>!or lain lng...God..she was so generous and kind...sya maoy nag sukad ug food pra nko..iya ko gidala sa buffet table pra mka pick ko ug food...then he told ian na ngadto lng mi sa room nya mangaun..kay samuk sa ubos..ian and i were really shock but at the same time na touch au mi..lola eting cared despite of what happened.iya pajud ko gihatdan ug chocolate cake..so nice of her...

pero ang pinaka pissed jud ko sa iya kana lng jud manawag ko then mangita ko ni ian then usahay muandar ang katapolan ni mama,di nya ihatag nya mu rason nlng sya na wla si ian pero naa gud to kapoyan lng sya twag..hihihi..lagov au!she was so caring...she keeps asking ian kung kumusta nko..and iya mga advices and mga precautions pra nako ky buros ko iya ipatugon kang ian...

and now ngka dugay nami ni ian.mama eting became one big part of me..no doubt!!!from our latest meetings sa ila place,mg sige nami chika about life.what i really admire about her is shes definitely smart and intelligent...open-minded,verbal and grabeh ka updated sa mga current issues of today.hahai..mama eting....akong giilang lola karun....amen!!!!!hehehehe